Anonymous asked: hey, sorry for the awkward question. i'm technically a totally straight woman but i've discovered that i can turn myself on by imagining a sexy woman (seducing a man). i feel really weird because i can't say i've ever been attracted to anyone of the same sex. is that normal that what i imagine in order to get turned on is something completely different than my "real" sex life? because i honestly can't complain about my sexual reality. ;)
Lots of straight men and women watch porn with a man and woman together. Especially if you’re straight, your sex is probably going to involve a woman (you! yay!) and a man (a hot, smart, sexy one! yay!) so it makes sense. Even if she’s someone else in your mind, you might be thinking ‘I could be that hot, seductive woman.’
Plus, bodies are just sexy. Orgies are things for a reason. Like, yay for breasts and hips and butts and penises and vaginas and hands and calves and slim shoulders and broad shoulders and curves and straight lines and stuff. It’s all sexy! It’s okay to like seeing a hot woman with a hot man. It’s awesome to see a hot woman alone or with another woman or two men (tons of straight females read m/m slash and even f/f slash because ugh relationships and feelings and hot sex). Porn and fantasies are just that, fantasies. It’s not your sex life. You’re not fucking in a gym or fucking the delivery guy or fucking a guy with a gigantic penis and you don’t have fake boobs, nails, and hair. Fantasies are for fun. In real life, there is much colliding and funny noises and awkward starts.
Your fantasy can be anything at all and I promise it isn’t weird. Go browse the tags of your favorite fandom on ao3. You will be rocked back by the kinks there. Hot ladies is very low on the list of weird.
Embrace that sex life and the fantasy, lady! IRL, you are the hotass woman, and you better love that!