Anonymous asked: My boyfriend is controlling. He wont let me talk to anyone or do anything. Im not allowed to be on the internet, or let alone be outside. I love him a lot and we've been together for awhile. Every time I talk to him about taking a break he swallows a bunch of pills. I don't want to leave because he'll kill himself. I just want help.. how to I deal with this.. I'm losing so many friends
Using suicide as a threat is just another way he’s manipulating you to keep you there. He’s not going to do it. Even if he did, it would not be your fault, but he won’t. It’s just another tool he’s using against you. Leave the asshole right now unless you want the rest of your life to be spent with someone else ruling it, controlling you, and possibly hurting you. Go to your parents, school nurse, counselor, teacher, anyone you trust, and tell them immediately. Right now. Right this second. As soon as you finish reading this, go tell someone. Let them know how serious it is, because it’s incredibly serious. You need to leave him and you need to know you’re safe when you do so, which should be right this immediate second.
