Anonymous asked: I want to lose weight but a part of me doesn't because I feel like I'd be 'giving in' to what my mom has been nagging me about for a year+ & what you see constantly in society, shoved in your face. A part of me wants to be stubborn & be just one big FU sign to everyone. But I want to learn Parkour & skateboarding, I want to be able to run again without getting tired fast. What to do? I can't decide which I want more, say FU to the world or be my true self.
The important part is to be true to you. When you do that, you are saying fuck you to society. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks of you, if they think you’re fat or skinny or stubborn or giving in. You’re not giving in if you’re doing it because you want to, not because society tells you to. And if someone says something about it, you tell them that. It doesn’t matter if anyone does say something though, as long as you are secure in your reasons.