Anonymous asked: Is it normal to feel really nervous about having sex? I really, really want to but it's so extremely personal & I am a very private person so it kind of freaks me out. Sometimes I just want to say the hell with it & just do it and move on but I'll regret it later if I did. I don't know. Is that normal?

Yes. It’s totally normal to be really nervous. You should be. Everyone is torn between this do it, don’t do it, I should wait, I shouldn’t wait. Make sure you’re ready. Make sure it’s with someone you trust. Make sure it isn’t just something you want to, ‘get out of the way.’