Anonymous asked: Last night I was with a group of people playing truth or dare, and I got dared to kiss my best friend, so I did. I have a boyfriend, but the kiss was nothing. It had no sparks, no nothing. But I've been with my boyfriend so long (over a year) that I'm starting to question if I should date other people or not. I love my boyfriend, but I just don't want to make the wrong choice or waste my time being young. Or maybe I'm just overthinking things. Do you have any advice for me?

I’m not really sure what the other kiss has to do with dating other people, but if you feel smothered or tied down, that’s common. Long term relationships when you’re young have lots of pros and lots of cons. You have to decide whether your current boyfriend is worth investing all your time into. But remember the grass is always greener problem. Being single might be appealing now, but it isn’t all butterflies and rainbows. It can be lonely and you aren’t necessarily dating a bunch of guys. Make the decision based on where you want to be in life right now for you and only you.