Anonymous asked: I think my ask got eaten a while ago so im going to ask again: Im a junior in highschool. In middle school I had a best friend we were really close and then we got into a fight and stopped being friends. Now I see her everywhere. shes gorgeous, she's loosing weight healthily, shes loved by all her friends, and i can't help being jealous! I don't know what to do :( Another thing is, whats a good diet to have to loose weight? I want to loose like 10 pounds before graduation. Thanks! :)
You cannot give a shit what anyone else is doing. Stop comparing yourself. Don’t compare yourself to your friends, don’t compare yourself to a supermodel. Someone being pretty doesn’t make you less pretty. Someone being funny doesn’t make you less funny.
As for weight loss, cut out the words ‘I need to lose 10 pounds.’ No one else sees the number on the scale. Also, you don’t need to lose 10 pounds to be happy, to look better, or for other people to like you. Your weight does not determine you. You’re graduating high school, that’s exciting and all that matters. Diets are bullshit. Eat healthy. Move your butt. Lift weights. Get fitter and smaller.