self esteem boosters (I’m 15 and plenty of people assure me that I’m lovely on the inside and out, which finally I’m beginning to accept. I’ve had issues with self-esteem most of my life and I’m starting to improve on this though I’m still an awkward mess a lot of the time. Silly as it sounds, I feel that even though people tell me I will, I feel like I’ll never be able to connect with anyone relationship-wise, and it worries me a little to see others do this and feel that I won’t be able to. Any advice? Thank you x)

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Anonymous asked: I'm 15 and plenty of people assure me that I'm lovely on the inside and out, which finally I'm beginning to accept. I've had issues with self-esteem most of my life and I'm starting to improve on this though I'm still an awkward mess a lot of the time. Silly as it sounds, I feel that even though people tell me I will, I feel like I'll never be able to connect with anyone relationship-wise, and it worries me a little to see others do this and feel that I won't be able to. Any advice? Thank you x

I know you hate to hear this, but you’re only 15. Not having a relationship yet does not mean anything. Not having a relationship by the time you’re twenty doesn’t mean anything. Stop comparing yourself to other people. You move at your own pace, your relationships happen how they happen, and you live your life, not anyone elses.

thesometimeswarrior said: Thanks. I’m 16 and have been feeling the same way. It’s not always what I want to hear, buy I think I need to hear that I have time more.
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