Anonymous asked: I am so fucking sad. My boyfriend of two years broke up with me a few days ago. We decided that we will continue to be best friends. But I still can't believe that we really are broken up. One minute I am okay and telling myself that "I can do this" and then the next second, I can't keep from crying and wondering why this happened. I tell myself that I can do this and that eventually, I will be okay. How can I keep my mind busy and still be best friends with him? :(

That’s a bummer. A big bummer. Also, a life bummer. As in, it happens in everyone’s life, and every does survive it. It isn’t easy, but you do. You wake up, you get through the day, you go to sleep, and you do it again. You eat lots of ice cream. You get cranky. You join the gym. You quit the gym. You fail a class. You become an A student. Whatever works for you. Being best friend with him is probably not going to work though. It makes it impossible to move on, considering you were in such a long term relationship. I know it hurts to lose him, but that’s part of moving on.