June 2012
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Anonymous asked: Should one go to a shrink for unbiased advice?
May 2012
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Anonymous asked: I'm black, but I have a strong preference towards white or oriental people. Such irony that both prefer their own race or each other. I'm not sure what to do with all this frustration.
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Anonymous asked: I absolutely hate my skin color. I'm a dark-skinned black girl and I hate it. I don't know what to do, because I know I should be proud and happy with who I am. Please help me.
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Anonymous asked: Hey, so i need advice. so im 15 and a freshman. I kinda wanna go out to parties and drink a little. But im scared to... I dont wanna kill my liver or become "stupid". You see im an honor student & im just paranoid if i start drinking im going to mess up my life... advice?
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Anonymous asked: I was in a changeroom when a girl pointed out that my boobs were huge. I've always been uncomfortable with myself for my size, but I tried to play this casually. She guessed I was a DD, I corrected her by saying I was much bigger and the entire moment after that became awkward. Now I feel like a freak :(
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Anonymous asked: I am 22 and lost 60 pounds over the last two years with just makin small changes and working out a bit. I am physical healthy but now I am crippled by a fear of gaining the weight back (I am still 30 pounds overweight). Recently I focused on mental health and started eating more food I enjoy (a mix of healthy food and unhealthy) and I began swimming instead of running. I feel amazing mentally but...
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Sorry if I've been a little mia
My grandfather just passed away, which is terrible in itself, but a really interesting study in family interaction. Basically, my family is crazy and we’re trying to make sure they don’t kill each other over the color of the casket.
Luckily, my favorite uncle stood up when my grandmother said I eat too much and made me flex, then spent the next half hour discussing how I could beat up...
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Anonymous asked: I think I want to tell my friend that I have suicidal thoughts and self harm, but whenever we get close to the topic, I completely close down, any advice on how to open up?
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Anonymous asked: I'm considering cutting.... I know it's bad, but I feel like there's no other way out...
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Anonymous asked: I've been having a really messed up year. Financial trouble, crisis of faith and sexuality, and a determination to either pierce or tattoo my body. I'm mostly unhappy, worse when I'm dealing with my parents. I feel like I'm going through the phases that I should've gone through in high school and I'm 23 T-T
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Anonymous asked: i literally never ask for advice but i'm in such a confusing situation and was hoping you could help me sort through it.i found out last year (freshman year of college) that this guy (sort of mutual friend with all of my friends) made a joke about my weight legit like 3 days after school began behind my back for some laughs. now, we're going to be in proximity all summer, with all of our...
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Anonymous asked: Hi, so pretty much, all of high school, I didn't have any cramps or moodiness that accompanied my period. I just finished my first year of college (yay!) but there has definitely been an increase in pain and mood swings in the last couple of months. Would this be because of an environment change, diet change, or something else? Is it something I can reverse? Thanks so much for answering...
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Anonymous asked: I want to lose weight but a part of me doesn't because I feel like I'd be 'giving in' to what my mom has been nagging me about for a year+ & what you see constantly in society, shoved in your face. A part of me wants to be stubborn & be just one big FU sign to everyone. But I want to learn Parkour & skateboarding, I want to be able to run again without getting tired...
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Anonymous asked: One morning, my mom looked at me and asked "Why are your lips so big?". Trust me, she wasn't teasing. For one, I'm black so it's common. Secondly, I look like her. I don't know why she says these things to me and wonders why I don't have confidence.
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Anonymous asked: hi its the girl who is 17 and likes her 23 yr old dance teacher here again. she doesnt know i like her, im not going to tell because i know she's straight. and another reason is because she's one of my favourite teachers at the studio not because i like her but because she is an amazing choreographer and i dont want things to be wierd between us, BUT i just want to know how i can kind...
Anonymous asked: I was just informed that my exBF (as well as one of my best friends) murdered 2 people. My friends and I always knew that there was something off about him and that he was a bit unhinged but I never imagined that he could do something like this. He's always been EXTREMELY protective of me and claimed that I am the only person that he has ever truly cared about and loved. He threatens my...
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Anonymous asked: I gained a bit of weight over this past year and I'm trying to lose it by exercising and making healthier eating choices. I've been in recovery for an eating disorder for over a year. I'm having a really difficult time coping with the fact that I can lose weight and still eat. I've never lost weight the healthy way. Any suggestions on dealing with this? Thank you!
Anonymous asked: As a teenage girl in a single sex school, I've spent pretty much every single day looking at the others and thinking, "They have nicer teeth" or "I wish I had her cheekbones" and I really got myself down by doing that. I didn't realise that taking your advice would be so easy - I've stopped. Here and there are some comparisons but overall I've become so much...
