March 2012
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Anonymous asked: Hi. Please help me. I've recently seen some sexual images online. I saw one on a person's blog and then I clicked it and it led to more. for some reason, I couldn't stop scrolling. It made my heart beat rise. I'm not sure what to do. I feel like I'm just seen dirty images. I don't know why I did that. I feel like dieing right now cause I can never be pure again, cause...
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Anonymous asked: How do I keep myself smelling/tasting good down there? (I'm a girl)
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Anonymous asked: OMG I just found another strand of white hair. I'm 19. NINETEEN. It was fully white. I'm not sure what to do.... WHAT IS HAPPENING?
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Anonymous asked: Most of the time I'm around anybody, even my close friends, I cut down my enthusiasm way down from what I'm actually feeling. I just want someone to be as excited over for example, a song, & gush over it & listen to it on repeat till I can sing it backwards without feeling like an idiot. I never say what I'm actually feeling 99% of the time because I'm afraid that...
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Anonymous asked: Ok this is kind of gross but how many times a day are you supposed to be peeing? Like, I've been trying to drink more water (I'm up to 4 glasses) but it's like I keep having to run to the bathroom and it's driving me nuts. What's healthy? :S thanks!
raaavenclawwwolf asked: To the anon who's 20.. Well, I'm a lot older than that now. I've been there, I've tried to grow up too fast. I've tried to impress people. It didn't really work - there will always be those who will judge you and look down on you. I used to hate being told I looked young because I felt i wasn't being taken seriously. I still am told that - but now I appreciate...
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Anonymous asked: I'm 20, I keep feeling & (sometimes acting) really immature & I just really annoy myself because that's just not me. I mean, I'm ok with being stupid from time to time but I want to be taken seriously by my friends & family. (& future employers even) I feel like I keep messing up or that people think I'm trying to hard & just end up fumbling around &...
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Picking a spotter
When you’re starting in the weight room, you want someone who can make sure you have proper form and literally spot you, grabbing the weight if you can’t hold it. This doesn’t have to be a personal trainer. Pick someone you trust who knows their way around the gym well. Pick someone who knows what they’re doing andcares about you. Pick someone who will keep an eye on you,...
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Over the last few months I’ve gone from an Express size 5 to a 2 being a little loose. The scale hasnt moved at all. Believe the size in your jeans, not the pounds.
Anonymous asked: Just for clarification, (I'm the poster with the 14 year old friend) I'm not upset about the fact that she's having sex. That doesn't bother me in the slightest because I was the same way, it just bothers me who it's with. If the guy was a little younger, I wouldn't be so worried.
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Ladies, weight room takeover
So you have a gym membership. I’m assuming you were not allowed to pay half the membership fee and promise to only use the cardio section. Instead, you’re paying the full fee and spending hours on the treadmill, looking wistfully toward the weight room that you planned on using. If you only want the gym for the cardio station, you might as well buy your own elliptical, or better yet,...
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Anonymous asked: Why can I not just let myself feel nice. Not pretty, not beautiful, but just nice. How is that so hard? I try things like changing my hair that literally makes me look less like a boy, I wear my favorite jewelry & my favorite clothes. But halfway through the day I'll catch a glimpse of myself & feel like an idiot. Like I'm glaringly obvious in trying too hard. When in reality...
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Anonymous asked: Hi :) I really like this guy, and he really likes me back - we're basically dating without the label of "boy/girlfriend". We've talked about holding hands and kissing, but I get kind of shy around him. Should I make the first move? Or would that not be good?
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Anonymous asked: My mom hates me. She lets my sister walk all over me and hit me and do whatever she wants, and if i push my sister aside my mom hits me. She's always telling me what a bad kid i am, no matter how hard i try...I got my grades up from a D average to a B average this year and all she told me was why isn't it an A average? I have no other family, my dad is dead, and I feel so unwanted all...
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Anonymous asked: Do stretch marks go away after losing weight? I have a ton of them on my hips, long white ones across my lower back and now on the underside of my stomach pooch are long red ones. I know it's from gaining weight but they still drive me nuts. :\
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Anonymous asked: I did a program where I looked after a younger girl for a week who was physically insecure, now the girl is 14 and I'm 20 and she's a close friend. The problem is, she's dating my ex-boyfriend who is my age and he's having sex with her. The fact that he's my ex doesn't bother me in the slightest, it was years ago. What does bother me is she's so young! I...
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Anonymous asked: hey, i'm a high school freshman and i was recently diagnosed with derealization. because of this, it's difficult to concentrate in school, especially in gym class. i'm naturally a bigger girl, and i'm also very athletic, but i'm not good at sports because it's difficult for me to concentrate. we're working on hockey, and people think the reason i'm not very...
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Anonymous asked: i feel like I'm wasting high school. I'm a freshman and one of my friends from middle school is enjoying herself smoking weed, hooking up and drinking and partying and stuff and i sit at home on friday nights alone and sad. i want to party and have fun but my friends don't do that and stuff and I've just felt really alone lately help
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Anonymous asked: I don't dress the way I really want to most of the time because I'd fall into the category of 'hipster' & it seems like as soon as you look like that people are automatically turned off or thinking that you're trying to hard. When I wear something I do it for comfort & personal style. & if I'm not hipster I like simple classic but elegant look. That too =...
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Anonymous asked: me and my boyfriend might be doing sexual stuff soon which im fine with but its my first time. im fine with doing it but im just worried about whether or not to shave 'down there' or not? :( idk if he'd prefer me to or not, and if i did whteher to do all of it or not, omg im sorry for this question :(
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Anonymous asked: When I was about 10/11, a teacher called me stupid in front of the class because I made a mistake in my work. I think that incident has affected me as I tend to be apprehensive and afraid of my teachers now. I don't trust them, even though they are nice and supportive. How do I put this behind me? I feel like I should just get over it because it was 5-6 years ago.
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Anonymous asked: My Mom keeps talking about how much weight she's lost or gained & though I try & be nice & listen to her it gets annoying eventually & when I try to nicely tell her that it's great but i don't want to hear it constantly she gets all defensive on how she's lonely & has no one to talk to. she doesn't even try hard enough to meet people her own age I...
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I want to make an app called, ‘Where Can I Pee?’ that locates the nearest bathroom, because that’s like my first question everywhere I go.
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Why do I run?
Because it burns calories? Or because it makes me skinny? Because I can go for a run with the man (who happens to be a personal trainer) and keep up? Or because it makes my dog ridiculously happy?
All those things are true, but that isn’t why.
I run because it hurts and it’s tiring and it kicks your ass and it’s awesome. I run for when you’re hunched over, totally wiped,...
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Anonymous asked: *sigh* im sick of going to school, honestly i dread it. My ex and I broke up two months ago; during which time he tried to make me jealous and i ignored him cause i didnt know how to be friends with him. it wasn't a bad break up but it was a messy post breakup period that got me in this situation. since monday this week, my ex has got a gf and a whole load of popularity. my best friend flirts...
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Anonymous asked: My family has always been financially strained which has caused a lot of moving. Every time we move my dad rants on about how, at his age, he shouldn't be in financial trouble like this. I try to be optimistic, but his argument is always stronger. It's like I'm not allowed to be hopeful.
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Anonymous asked: Sometimes, I expel a small amount of food after I've eaten. I don't like to say it's vomiting because I've been sick before from a legitimate physical illness and what I do feels nowhere near like that. I only ever use slight force to bring it up and on occasion taste acid. So is this normal? I admit that I have issues with food involving not eating enough but that is getting...
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Anonymous asked: My back hurts constantly (more so when I`m working). Yoga seems to be the ONLY answer, but it seems too cultish to me. People praise it as some `master key' to solving all ones problems and it irks me (makes me feel like a hipster ><). Is there an alternative to yoga or some way to feel less bothered?
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Anonymous asked: I have a guy friend who likes me. I kind of like him too, though I'm not even completely sure why. We're on completely different maturity and intelligence levels. For instance, I'm in Hon/AP classes and academically ahead of him by a year. I debate and he's ignorant towards politics. That doesn't normally bother me, but there are times where he'll say something...
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Anonymous asked: I have had social anxiety for forever, but this year, my anxiety is really taking a toll on my health. Since October, I've been skipping lunch and heading to the library to avoid being seen eating alone. I've lost a lot of weight, and I've missed 3-4 periods. I'm down to one meal a day, and I feel pathetic. The only thing worse than starving myself is having people know...
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Anonymous asked: My good friend knows that I'm a lesbian and I've told her to keep it to herself. But she publicly advertises my sexuality. She sometimes refers to me using offensive slurs, openly discusses about my sexuality/love interests when I've explicitly asked her not to. She is sometimes physically inappropriate - deliberately sitting with her legs open wide when I'm in front of her and...
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Anonymous asked: I'm happy with my body, except for my legs. Everytime i look at my thighs i feel disgusted & i wanna just throw up everything i ate.. i'm really self conscious, & i would do anything to get rid of that nasty fat between my thighs. My stomach is flat, & everything else is good, just my legs.. Is there anything in specific i can do to get rid of it ?
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Anonymous asked: Is it possible to have a 'finger in all the pies' (I think I'm using the wrong thing here but hopefully you get it!) so to speak? Like, I'm an artist & photographer primarily but I want to design clothes & jewelry, some graphic & interior design, be a blogger & a journalist & a musician. Do people have several jobs going almost all at once? I just want to do...
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Healthy recipes you can't fuck up: Low carb/cal...
My brother made these and he’s entirely baking impaired. He can barely work the microwave, but they kicked ass! Adapted from Jamie Eason.
Ingredients:
1 cup Oat Flour (this can be made with 1 1/2 cups of plain oatmeal ground in the food processor/blender)
4 Egg Whites
2 scoops Vanilla Whey Protein Powder
½ cup Splenda, Truvia, or Ideal (remember truvia is vanilla-y so cut a little...
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Evolutionarily, men like skinny women
I hear this all the time, and it’s totally taken out of context, stripped down to extreme basics, and overhyped. Let’s start by saying that what men/women likeevolutionarilydoesn’t necessarily align with what your average person is into today.
Now lets go on to the statement itself. Men are showed, over time, to prefer a waist to hip ratio of .7 (70%). This is generally defined...
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Anonymous asked: This is kind of embarrassing, but here goes. I've been sexually active for a while now, but I've always been kind of, um, quiet. I know guys like to know you're enjoying it and all, but for some reason I just feel really self conscious about making any noise. I know I'm not alone in this, but I hate how uptight I can be. Any tips?
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Anonymous asked: I want to live in a city like NYC or Philadelphia as they have the things that I need (large art districts, close to family & friends, & in the northeast) but it's so expensive! I need to get an internship with an artist or photographer but I'd have to be working at least three jobs just to live in a relatively safe place roommate or not. How do people do it?
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Anonymous asked: Is it true that when you like older men it's because you need to fill some void because your father didn't? This creeps me out because half the time I am only attracted to older men & few my age (20's) & yes my father was next to never in my life. It creeps me out because I think it's some sort of subconscious reaction to that. I feel & act older than most young...
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Anonymous asked: I don't know what to do. I'm so depressed anymore. I just want to take all my things & just burn them. Start over. I don't know. I want to be happy again to have a will to just be more than existing but I can't. I'm so tired of it all but want too much out of life to let it go. I don't know what to do. I just don't.
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Anonymous asked: I'm afraid of breaking up with my boyfriend because without him I'll be lonely; I don't have many friends I see regularly. I know I should end it but I can't seem to actually do it...
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Anonymous asked: I live in Florida where everything is flat. How to I jog/walk & get the benefits? Just do them longer?
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Anonymous asked: I would firstly like to thank you for all you've done for your followers <3.. however, I've been battling relapse with both cutting, and my ed for a few months now, and I don't know what to do anymore. Each day just becomes worse, and worse, and I have absolutely no one to talk to about this... I feel so alone all the time, and I can't help but break down everyday after...
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Anonymous asked: When I finish working out I'm so sore and so tired. How do I know whether there's something wrong or if it's normal?
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Anonymous asked: How many days of rest should I take when I'm just starting out from a sedentary lifestyle? Thanks!
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Healthy recipes you can't fuck up: low carb/cal...
The great thing about this is that there’s no dairy in this, so it’s awesome for anyone lactose intolerant or anyone who wants dessert without guilt.
Ingredients
1 large banana
1 tablespoon of cocoa powder OR a handful of frozen berries
Directions
Slice up the banana and stick it in the fridge. An hour will do, but overnight will be especially yummy.
When it’s frozen, dump...
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Anonymous asked: i'm looking for fun and inspirational ways to get out of a hermit funk. i've been struggling with depression for a few years and i'm just ready to start getting out of the house, getting in shape, back into society, etc. i currently don't have my own means of transportation, though, so i'll have to start slowly. just wondering if you had any advice for gradually getting...
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Anonymous asked: ok so I'm underweight right, and my crush told me I'm skinny and unhealthy and at first I didn't take it to heart, but he said i was emotionally unstable and THAT killed me. but he said he was very sorry, and i forgave him. but it's like everywhere i go people WANT me to be insecure about my body but i love it, is it normal? or am i being self centred like people tell me?
