February 2012
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Anonymous asked: I like this girl, but I don't want to have these feelings I have for her because I know it will never work out. She is nice and incredibly beautiful and funny. She's going to graduate this summer (she's 1 year older) so no way would it work. But my feelings intensified when I found out she was bisexual (I'm a lesbian). Granted, I've never actually spoken to her but I know...
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Anonymous asked: okay, I like this guy a lot but there's only one thing, he's off Tumblr. He lives in the same city as I do, and I've talked to him quite a bit. Each time I talk to him, I feel myself falling for him a little bit more and I really don't know what to do. Please help me?
sporklocked asked: And to everyone who may or may not believe in God: I, and so many other people, love you and think you are a worthwhile, lovable, capable human being, regardless of who/what you do or do not believe in.
Anonymous asked: To the beautiful wonderful person who said they wanted to kil themself and the beautiful wonderful you and to the beautiful wonderful everyone that reads this: You are beautiful! God and Jesus love you and have amazing plans for you! You should pray if you want, and believe! They are always with you. You are always loved and never alone! <3 if you pray for something for the right reasons and...
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Anonymous asked: Hi, sorry I'm on anon, I'm 15 and I've been having intense suicidal thoughts for about 6 months non-stop. I think it's been on my mind at least 6-7 hours a day, in school, on the bus at home, everywhere I'm pretty convinced I won't see next year.I've also self harmed for almost a year and a half. My parents don't know anything about this and I can't...
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I'm trying to pick a url
For my domain, because some bastard took boostyouresteem.com. B has helpfully checked to make sure ‘thatadviceblog.com’ and ‘youradvicesucks.com’ can be registered.
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Humans for Humans. No zombies, aliens, or...
There are approximately 190000543 campaigns that are Women for Women, Men for Men, Men for Women, Women for Men who like Men who like Women, Parents for Kids, Kids for Parents-who-have-lost-their-childish-soul, but I think we’re forgetting something.
The way you change the world is altering yourself and maybe someone else too. It’s one little thing every day. When I was a kid, there...
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I'm getting a lot of stuff about Angelina Jolie...
Which I did not watch. I half thought that maybe a music award show thing was on, but I was mostly focused on The Walking Dead.
I saw a few pictures of Angelina being her crazy self, and I have pretty much zero opinion on her. I’m indifferent. So I can’t give you the explosive, passionate response you want.
What I will say is, you are not concerned about her like most of these blog...
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Anonymous asked: I'm running myself into the ground. I can see myself, overweight, depressed & exhausted. I literally look like shit. And the scary part is that I can't make myself care enough to do something about it. I know I have a problem but I don't know what. What's wrong with me?
Anonymous asked: To that anon about being a lesbian, and not wanting to offend the religious: I am religious, my belief says homesexuality is a sin. But my beliefs also say God loves everyone, and that I should love everyone if I can, too. I support gay/lesbian rights. I think you need to stop worrying about those people. If they judge you for being a lesbian, they're being hypocrites, as God loves everyone....
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Anonymous asked: i'm sort of horrible with this kind of thing, but is it wrong to not give someone a chance because I might have feelings for another person, even if said person doesn't really talk to me and keeps to themselves all of the time? I don't really see this person a lot, ever, and we've barely talked and I feel like sometimes I'm just going to sit and wait for nothing because I...
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Anonymous asked: My friend is suffering with anorexia, she has a bmi of 14!!!!!! She collapsed and is currently in the hospital due to low blood pressure. She doesn't eat or sleep. How can I get her to stop???????
boudour asked: ♥♥♥♥♥♥ for being such a kind, understanding and wonderful person. The principle of your blog alone attests to that, and your posts often bring a smile to my face ♥
lifeunorthodox-deactivated20121 asked: Hello. I was wondering if you could post this? I would be very grateful if you could. My name is Elliot and I am currently looking for 4 writers who live in the UK and have had experience of mental health issues - to be specific, those who know of someone with mental health issues. If you are interested - send me a message and we can have a chat.
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Get moving. Get outside. It's good for your self...
I’m not talking going to the gym and lifting or running for four hours on the treadmill. I’m talking about getting outside and walking, running, skipping, jogging, shuffling, or laying in the grass. Unplug, shut off your phone (but keep in on you in case of mutant dog attack) and just walk. Be amazed at how lucky you are that you have this body that walks and breathes and moves and...
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Anonymous asked: I think I might be bi... I honestly don't know what to do. It could be just be a phase right?
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Anonymous asked: ive just turned 16 and never had a boyfriend. will i ever find someone that i like enough to be in a relationship with?
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Anonymous asked: Is it normal to feel really nervous about having sex? I really, really want to but it's so extremely personal & I am a very private person so it kind of freaks me out. Sometimes I just want to say the hell with it & just do it and move on but I'll regret it later if I did. I don't know. Is that normal?
Anonymous asked: If I message you, can you answer it privately? I need to ask something but it's too long for the ask box & I'd rather not have it on the main page either.
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Anonymous asked: I always feel like shit after working out - being hungry and exhausted and all - thus, I never stick to it long enough to enjoy the benefits. I'm over 200 lbs so these benefits are a long time away.I'm tired of being overweight, but feeling like crap for the next year or so doesn't seem worth it. It's almost like a "Damned if you do; damned if you don't"...
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Anonymous asked: I'm 18, & when I was a kid I tried to tell my mom about a boy I liked. She teased me so much that I felt ashamed of my feelings, and I've never talked about boys with her since. Now I'm in college and finding that I'm rarely, if ever, attracted to boys and am terrified of intimacy. I don't know if I am struggling with my sexuality and may be graysexual or if I'm...
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Anonymous asked: I don't know what's wrong with me... My friend gets a lot of attention from people and I feel worthless. People love her and I just feel like people hate me. I guess I'm just jealous of her but asdhjk I feel worthless. What should I do?
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Anonymous asked: I can't shake these suicidal thoughts. I don't know how to be a real person anymore. I don't know how to live anymore. I want to feel whole, but all I feel is empty, and it's been going on for too long, and I'm so tired. I don't know what's wrong with me.
Anonymous asked: I've seen quite a few of your self-esteem images floating around Pinterest. Just thought you might like to know they're pretty popular there :) I keep seeing them on health/motivational boards. DFTBA.
Anonymous asked: You don't have to answer this as this can be personal. But what's your opinion on the Republican candidates?
raaavenclawwwolf asked: To the t-shirts and jeans anon: there is NOTHING hotter than t-shirts and jeans :) but Liz is so right about personality... every single day I meet tons of people who look great and have absolutely nothing behind that vacant stare.
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Anonymous asked: Is it normal to think about suicide on a daily basis? I don't intend to end my life and I don't want to, but I've had these thoughts for about a year. Is it normal? I'm a teenager.
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Anonymous asked: I've always been naturally thin. I never dieted or exercised. But a few months ago, I lost a few pounds due to stress. Oddly enough, this weight loss made me feel powerful, and now, I want to keep going. I am 96 pounds, and I want to see how I would look if I actually tried. Is it normal to feel this way?
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Anonymous asked: I decided to stop trying to pull off a feminine appearance. I stashed away all my jewelry and wear only t-shirts and jeans. I’m tired of trying to be pretty because it never works. However, whenever I’m getting ready to leave the house, I ponder how I’m going to impress boys. It’s entirely hypocritical and really wish I would stop.
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You want to be happy?
Stop caring what other people think. Go to school for what you want, work where you want, follow your dreams, be embarrassing in public, love who you want, fuck who you want, have whatever type of relationship you want, absolutely indulge in your ridiculous, nerdy, geeky passions.
Mix it all up with a big bucket of love for yourself (go to that mirror naked and say, hello, sailor!) and out comes...
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Anonymous asked: My parents quietly disapprove of my sexuality as a lesbian, and I know if I did choose to pursue a relationship with someone of the same-sex, it is certain to cause serious rifts in the family. I am not really religious, but I feel like to avoid the disapproval of those who are religious, I should just be single and not 'act' on my feelings. I've never been in a relationship before...
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Anonymous asked: have you ever been hurt in the gym?
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Anonymous asked: How do you love yourself? Does citing positive affirmations to yourself regularly really help?
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B and I are doing a 30 day challenge
Join us if you’d like. Instead of it being an extreme push for 30 days, it’s integrating our fitness into our lives better, instead of letting it overwhelm our lives. This is a lifestyle for us and it always has been, but it’s easy to get obsessed. We have day jobs, friendships, B has a girlfriend and I have a blog (shh, this isn’t sad).
So this is to keeping it balanced,...
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Anonymous asked: Last night I was with a group of people playing truth or dare, and I got dared to kiss my best friend, so I did. I have a boyfriend, but the kiss was nothing. It had no sparks, no nothing. But I've been with my boyfriend so long (over a year) that I'm starting to question if I should date other people or not. I love my boyfriend, but I just don't want to make the wrong choice or...
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Anonymous asked: i really hope you answer this question! I'm a freshman in college and i guess im adjusting to the real world and boys. Im really having trouble "talking" to a guy without laughing at everything, im not sure if i do it cus im nervous, but i dont try to be flirtatious. also i feel like i have nothing to talk to them about but smile and laugh, any advice on how i can make guy friends...
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Anonymous asked: I feel unwanted, useless, and everyone secretly hates me. I just want to die. Im a self-harmer and anorexic. I have a bmi of 17.4 and i starve myself quite often. None of my friends ever notice my cuts, and the same with my parents. They never notice me not eating too. I'm actually thinking about cutting myself soon..
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Anonymous asked: I think my ask got eaten a while ago so im going to ask again: Im a junior in highschool. In middle school I had a best friend we were really close and then we got into a fight and stopped being friends. Now I see her everywhere. shes gorgeous, she's loosing weight healthily, shes loved by all her friends, and i can't help being jealous! I don't know what to do :( Another thing is,...
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Anonymous asked: I know what I have to do but I'm so scared to do it. I have this deep ingrained fear of rejection &/or disappointment from friends, family since I was very young. & I don't know how to make it go away. Am I just not ready to do what I need to do? I'm so confused.
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Anonymous asked: How can I get my mom to stop trying to guilt trip me into exercising? I don't want to! I'm 20 years old! I just can't be bothered with it. She keeps bringing it up even when I repeatedly tell her nicely & not so nicely that I do not care & I just want to be left alone & not talk about it! Now she's trying to use me for herself for motivation to lose weight,...
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Anonymous asked: I want to be a vegetarian, because I don't like it when animals are killed needlessly when I could eat other alternative forms of meat. But I have two problems: my family incorporates meat into a lot of the food we eat and it would be seen as rude if we don't eat it. My other problem is that my eating is not healthy - I tend to restrict food intake, leading me to be underweight - so...
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Anonymous asked: Be for I go for a jog/work out what's the best thing to eat? I was thinking something light but still enough to give me energy like a protein shake?
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Anonymous asked: How do I use a different last name without having to go through all the paperwork & such to legally change it if I don't want to? I know many actors/musicians go by different names but how does it work? I'm going to be an artist & I'd like to go by a different last name.
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Anonymous asked: Are there people out there anymore who want to get married & stay married for life? It just seems like everyone gets married & divorces a year or less after. I see these old couples who've been married for 40+ years & they've had ups & downs but they stuck it out & still love each other. I feel like I'm the only one who really wants that kind of marriage. Call me...
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Anonymous asked: Is it too late to change yourself? To be better, to be the best that you can be?
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Anonymous asked: I'm a sophomore. I'm still friends with some of my middle school friends, and lately my two best middle school friends have been worrying me. By guy friend started having sex w/ his gf and is now cheating on her, and we've been drifting. He talks about how he "doesn't understand why we don't talk" but never bothers to contact me or tell me what's going on....
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Anonymous asked: I'm 15 and plenty of people assure me that I'm lovely on the inside and out, which finally I'm beginning to accept. I've had issues with self-esteem most of my life and I'm starting to improve on this though I'm still an awkward mess a lot of the time. Silly as it sounds, I feel that even though people tell me I will, I feel like I'll never be able to connect...
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Anonymous asked: For valentine's day, I went on a date with a guy that I'm interested in and we got to really know each other during the dinner. He walked me back to my residence hall on campus and opened the door for me. I told him I had to tell him something so he would move his face to the side & I kissed him on the cheek.. but he hasn't really said anything to me about it.. I don't know...
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Anonymous asked: Is it normal to fear being pregnant? I want to have a baby one day but then I think of actually creating & growing a new life, I panic. I suppose it's a bit irrational but I don't know...I probably shouldn't have kids if I'm that scared??
