January 2012
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Anonymous asked: Hi, I was wondering if you have any tips for hiding self harm scars, for when the warm weather rolls in. x
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Anonymous asked: Thank you for posting that article about female orgasms for that one anon! I read it and found it very helpful and interesting. However, I still have a question: is it possible to never reach an orgasm? I have never reached one either and I would really like to. I want to buy a vibrator but I am 16 and I think you have to be 18 to get one. What should I do?
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Anonymous asked: I have a sex question. I have never had sex before, but I masturbate. But I have never orgasmed, not that it doesn't feel good, it does. But the problem is that afterward I never feel satisfied and I end up masturbating for sooo long and never feel satisfied. Sorry if this is tmi.
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Anonymous asked: One of my very close friends, and now boyfriend, has mysterious problems and I don't know how to help him. I call them mysterious because he, in order not to worry or stress me out, keeps everything negative in his life hidden from me. I appreciate this because I know he's just looking out for me but I feel like I should be trying to help him, I mean that's what friends do, right?!...
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Anonymous asked: My self esteem has dropped so low recently. I am so sad and crying all the time. I just want to be happy and strong, but the emphasis on losing weight has started to drive me crazy. I just want to be happy again. I know I need to make changes to my life, but I just am not sure what to do.
Anonymous asked: I have the exact same problem as the last anon, other people control my happiness, or at least I let them. I'm sick of letting them be in that much control of the outcome of my day. But then I again, the tiniest things make me so happy. A smile can make my day, but a sneer can ruin it.. But your answer is perfect, I want to entrust my happiness in something I control.
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Anonymous asked: How do i stop other people to control my happiness? I want to depend on myself for that not the actions of others. Like for example, if the guy I have a crush on doesn't acknowledge me i'll be bummed out the whole day. and I don't want that. I want to free myself of crushes and be happy.
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Anonymous asked: Sometimes I feel that being smart is a double edged sword. For example, I can switch easily between lots of things going on at the same time, because I can pick up easily where I left off. The bad thing is that sometimes all those things on my mind (particularly unsolved problems) will suddenly come back and club me over the head at vulnerable moments and then it all seems so overwhelming and it...
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A random child nailed me with a snowball when I stopped for coffee. I don’t even care. I’m so pumped that it’s snowing and war is on.
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Anonymous asked: I was wondering if you thought that run/walk combo for a half hour a day, and 30-60 minutes of pilates on alternating days will be good to burn fat/tone up? I'm planning on doing it five days a week. I read that realistically you only need about a half hour of exercise 3 days a week to lose weight? Any tips?
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Anonymous asked: Im feeling really low at the moment, recently found out im VERY anaemic and its exam season and all im really doing all day every day is school, napping, revising and sleeping and i just feel like theres no point, i really feel like theres nothing i look forward to anymore and my life is so empty. Any tips to stop me feeling this way?
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Anonymous asked: This isn't about self esteem, I just don't know who to ask for advice. A friend of mine is applying to become a foster parent, but I believe him to be unfit for this. He is severely emotionally unstable. I have been trying to cut ties with him for a long time because he is really messed up and scares me. He hides it around some, and he is not being treated by a doctor, so I worry that...
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Anonymous asked: I'm traveling soon, could you give me some advice on how to eat well/stay in shape? I'll be gone for a few weeks. thanks!
Anonymous asked: About the horny while PMSing, I've always heard about how you usually get really flirty/horny when you're PMSing, but i've actually come to find it's just a need to connect with someone else disguised as that. A night out with your best friend, or a few friends, or spending some quality time with a family member usually is what makes me feel so much better.
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Anonymous asked: I have a boyfriend that I really care about. Part of how I know that I'm PMSing is that I feel really horny, and it makes me really want to have sex with him even though I know I'm not ready for sex yet. I don't know how to put aside these sexual urges logically when I feel this way.
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Anonymous asked: so if you are under the consented age to send "sexts" over email, will the government track you? does the law enforcements get involved?
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Anonymous asked: Okay...I want to grab the attention of this one guy with a kiss. I know before you said that there's really no wrong way, but is there a certain tip that would absolutely leave him stunned?
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Anonymous asked: i need advice... i was invited to a party but my good friends werent invited... i know that i was invited becus this guy wants to hook up with me there but i dont want to hook up with him and i wont even have my best friends there to hang out with... but all of my other (not as good) friends r going and if i dont go they might think im a loser... should i go?
Anonymous asked: It's good to know I'm not the only one afraid of children.
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Anonymous asked: I grabbed the wrong drink off the table at a party I just met the girl that night she didn't have any sore but could I get herpes if she did ?! I'm freakin out I have no sores or anything and it takes 3mouths to show up on a blood test :(((( she's my friends best friend and she says she's shes clean but what if?
