October 2011
Anonymous asked: have you ever made out with someone with a tongue ring? can you feel it?
September 2011
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Do something fun
Do it on your campus or street or city block. Also, make lots of double entendres in life. I don’t care how old you are. Grab a bunch of cans of silly string and as people are walking into a party, toss them to everyone and start a war. Attack with water balloons. Dominate the street with chalk. Play kick the can and washer toss.
Go play like you haven’t since you bought a laptop....
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The world will be better for women when we stop saying, ‘don’t shave your legs, don’t wear make-up, don’t dress up, don’t ever get plastic surgery.’ Women will be themselves when we teach them as girls to shave their legs if they want, wear make-up when they want, dress however they damn well please, and alter their body in whatever way they wish.
Having...
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Anonymous asked: I distance myself from my boyfriend as a preventative measure all the time. He posted this lovey dovey type song on some chick's facebook profile and she liked it and even though it's nothing, it made me so upset and I'm distancing as we speak. I over exaggerate things and now I'm thinking how fucking jsfhsjkflsfg it all is. Whenever we're out with friends he feels like I...
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Anonymous asked: I wanted some1 else's opinion & I know u r wise beyond ur years. Do u believe that if 2 ppl r meant 2 be 2gether they will eventually end up 2gether? There is this girl who I like & she says & does things that makes me think she like me 2. (I should add we have gotten so close we have become best friends). The thing is I don't want a relationship til after I'm done...
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Anonymous asked: Okay, so this guy I have liked for 2 years invited me and my brother to go to the movies. When we get there, i realize the girl he likes has also been invited. I sit next to her, who is sitting next to him. And he starts kissing her. Right. Next to me. I sit through this movie, tears streaming down my cheeks. Now I never want to hang out with those two again. He's an amazing person.I love...
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Anonymous asked: I have struggled with depression and self harm for years and then recently I got really upset and cut too deep. I could literally see inside my arm, and I wouldn't stop bleeding. I honestly thought I was going to bleed to death. It was in that moment I had a complete revelation, a life changing moment, where I realized I didn't want to die anymore. I didn't want to keep living...
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Anonymous asked: My best friend got together with her ex boyfriend about 2 weeks ago. She waited a week to tell me because she was afraid of what I'd think. The thing is, last year when they broke up, she told me that he was emotionally abusive. I can't fathom why she would want to get back together with him after how he hurt her (calling her worthless, a bitch etc.) I support her, and I'll be there...
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Anonymous asked: I feel out of place because I don't drink, do drugs, smoke or wear makeup (I do shave/tweeze though). I don't consider myself better than others just because I don't do those things, it's just a personal preference. Since I'm in 11th grade, it's pretty common to do either of those four things. So.. I often feel self-conscious around others because I know they think...
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Anonymous asked: My friend likes me, and I like him back. The thing is that he told me that it seems as if I don't feel the same way about him, but I really do. I guess it's because i'm not the most affectionate person on the planet. It's really hard for me to express any feelings, I guess it's just hard for me to open up. How can I even begin to open up?
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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I have never been out on a real date. Alone. We've been dating for almost three months. We hang out all the time, though. After school, on the weekends. Either outside, someone's place or with friends. I guess I'm a little nervous about a real date outside because we have a problem expressing intimacy in public. We hug and all that and hold hands, but a lot of...
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Anonymous asked: so basically over the summer i hardly ate and then i began attempting to make myself sick... i never became underweight though, which sort of makes me feel as if i've failed. anyway i told my family and they're helping me so much, i'm eating 3 meals a day with a piece of fruit after each and like a breakfast bar occasionally. but up till recently i've not been able to eat...
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Anonymous asked: Is it normal to just want someone to properly care for you and take the reins from you? Since I was a young child, I had to be independent due to my parents having to work late nights and combined with school, I barely saw them and was often left home alone for long periods of time. This was the schedule since I was a toddler and continues now (I'm 16). Sometimes I want someone to look after...
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Anonymous asked: so you always gave me great advice so gosh. please help? There is this guy and I like him. I mean not just you know, physically. I mean, yes he is cute but he is more than that. He is funny, sarcastic, amazing personality etc. He has a girlfriend. Don't worry, I'm not going to do anything yet. I don't know how long they will last but even if they don't. I don't think I can...
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Anonymous asked: I'm not getting at you, but I hate the fact that everybody makes out like having an eating disorder makes you miserable all the time. I developed anorexia when I was eleven and what makes me miserable is when people stick their noses in my business. Its nothing to do with them what I need to do with my body. At least I'm achieving a goal of mine, isnt that a positive?
Anonymous asked: I'm talking about the boyfriend question that had like three parts to it, like i had to submit three different times. I can't remember exactly what it said :(
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Anonymous asked: I told this lie about not being a virgin. last night my boyfriend discovered that I really am a virgin. I came clean and told him everything. I made up the lie b.c. I'm almost 20 and almost all of my friends are sexually active and I was being made fun of.. and I am the most awkward sensitive person to walk this planet.. So I told everyone I had sex with this guy.. My Boyfriend told me in...
rafialkiewicz replied to your post: how do you feel about censorship?
Did you know, even if you say ‘banana cookie’ when you slam your finger in the door, ‘banana cookie’ becomes a swear? An expletive is an expletive is an expletive. It doesn’t matter which word you use, it only matters how it’s used.
When I was a wee child, my brother slammed all my fingers in the door. It hasn’t...
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Anonymous asked: Hey so im scared. I was having "dry sex" or whatever its called when youre naked just messing around, ya know. and he, i think, pre-came or came a littlelittle bit and i felt some get on my thong near my entrance so i felt maybe (idk) a little touch the outside of my vagina. , do you think it got me pregnant? I should be getting my period in a day or two. This happened saturday at...
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Anonymous asked: fuck yeah, frank gifs!
Anonymous asked: how do you feel about censorship?
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Anonymous asked: I want to kill myself. Noone is ever happy around me and im not happy around anyone. I tried making a "happy list" but i couldnt think of even one thing i like about myself. Everyone hates me, im ugly, fat and annoying. Don't tell me things will get better because people been telling me that for a long time and they were wrong. Everything just keeps on getting worse. I'm done...
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Anonymous asked: Is there such thing as minor self harm? Or is any type of self harm just self harm? And what would be examples of minor self harm?
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I absolutely must see 'The Other F-word'
If the idea of our punk rock heroes who spent their lives rebelling against their parents turning into fathers themselves isn’t enough, Mr. Hoppus is in it. The world needs more Mark Hoppus.
Growing up is terrifying, especially when you grew up in the scene or the alt rock lifestyle where it’s like age is suspended. You go to rock shows because you don’t fit in anywhere else....
Anonymous asked: Did you get the question about the boyfriend issues? D:
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Anonymous asked: I'm 21, and I have a chronic pelvic pain condition that means sex is excruciatingly painful for me. I've bene given this lidocaine gel that I apply before sex and it numbs the pain. However, sometimes even with the lidocaine I can't do it. I'm scared that my limitations will put men off me, and that no-one will want to be with me when they find out that sex will never be...
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Remember on October 3rd to spread the word that It...
You should be spreading the word every day, but on the third, we can stand together for the kids who can’t stand up to their bullies. Absolutely nothing is worth killing yourself over, especially not some bully with a complex who thinks they’re better than you.
Remember, it is never about you, it is always about the asshole bullying you. And if someone is bullying you because of your...
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Anonymous asked: I just realised that I think I have problems with social interactions and stuff like that...I'm a teenage girl, but I can't go up to someone and speak to them - I can barely even speak to my friends, and they don't notice me when I'm there! It's like I don't exist any more, and it really gets me down :( I'm already depressed and I self-harm, so my lack of...
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Anonymous asked: Hello! This year, as a sophomore in college, I dedicated it to becoming the best person I can be, realizing that I wasn't fulfilling my potential in mind, body, and spirit. Right now, progress on the body is working, but the mind and soul are lacking. I have low self-esteem, despite my extrovert personality and friendliness to others. I want to gain more self-esteem, but in tangent with my...
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Anonymous asked: I really love playing music. But every now and then I just get so sick of it - I feel like I'm crap at it and I'll never get better. I get so frustrated. Do you have any idea how I can stop getting so frustrated? It's mostly the singing that's the problem.
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Submission by livingoffantidotes:
To the person with social anxiety. I suffer with that myself. For the last few years, I have had one close friend. Occasionally a boyfriend. But with those gone, the 9 or so months have been hard and I’ve really retreated into my house. I go to work, school, I come home and do nothing. But I’m working hard on making friends, keeping friends, and loosing my anxiety.
It’s never...
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The Sex Files: Universal lies men tell →
truelifesex:
It doesn’t bother us when you talk shit about our friends.
We don’t mind when you take our favorite t-shirt.
One outfit looks better than the other - we have no idea, we just want to get to dinner sometime this year.
We love when your underwear match your shoes. We don’t even know what…
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Anonymous asked: do you think junior year in college is too late to make friends? I never considered whether or not I had social anxiety until this summer when I got really depressed got the courage to start going to go counseling at my school and I'm finally going to start group therapy next week which is supposed be a good method of treatment since you get to work with people who have similar issues. I just...
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Anonymous asked: I think I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend, but I'm really insecure about my body. I'm very overweight yet I can't fill an A cup bra. My breasts are severely deformed and I know if he truly loved me he wouldn't mind....but I'm still very ashamed. I have the option of getting surgery on them but it's very expensive and would deplete my already low chances of...
Anonymous asked: Reasons Why This Blog Is Awesome 1 The brilliant advice 2 Knowing someone cares 3 MCR/Supernatural gifs 4 The feeling of having a question answered and knowing what your decision should be thanks to Liz's help 5 Pics of Zero 6 Liz's general awesomeness 7 Sex Files, which are just epic (yeah, I said epic. I don't care that it's no longer popular) 8 Your general awesomeness,...
Anonymous asked: Confession: Posts about Zero totally make my day. He's so damn adorable.
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Anonymous asked: Am I wrong for not wanting to go shopping with my best friend? The thing is, I'm constantly spending money on her whenever we go out. Sometimes I make up little lies about not being able to go out with her, when in reality, it's just that I don't want to spend double if we both need to eat or something like that. I hate having to lie though. Do you have any advice on how I could...
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Anonymous asked: College is making me miserable. I thought it would be easier (I'm a first year) but it's been weeks and it hasn't really improved. I get up at 6am, get home at 6pm and spend the remaining hours before bed doing college work. I seriously have no life anymore and it's going to be this way for the next 5-6 years. What am I supposed to do?
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Anonymous asked: I feel extremely depressed each day. I hate waking up because it's like reality is slapping me with a brick. I want to sleep forever. I doubt people need me and I feel they're happier without me. I want to tell my parents so I could get help, but I have no idea how to confront them.
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Anonymous asked: So um... is there a female form of "precum"? Cause like, whenever my boyfriend and I are doing anything that really turns me on, I notice something that's like a mix of my start of cycle and ovulating discharges. We don't do anything that leads to either of us climaxing, and the only time I don't notice this happening is when I'm on my period. Thanks!
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The Sex Files: What women want →
truelifesex:
Sitting over dinner with three girls, two dogs, four vintage wines, and a pile of fashion magazine, we lit some candles and tried to pin down just what we want. After getting all the ‘rugged, good looks,’ bullshit out of the way, and three glasses of wine, we got down to business. Women just want…
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Anonymous asked: I self harm, and the last time I did it, I did the worst damage I'd ever done to myself (which is still minor). Since then, I've had very few urges to self harm. It's weird because before that worst damage I frequently had urges. This has happened over the past year.. I stop after real damage is caused, then some weeks later I go back to it. Is that normal? Or maybe college is...
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Anonymous asked: I hate my dad. For years he abused us, I cant stand him and I havent seen his face for near 10 years and dont intend to. I cannot stand the site of him and dont even want him associated with my family. He went to prison for some things he did to my family, and I thought i'd be rid of him forever. Then my sister made the ill informed decision to start seeing him again and I cant say or do...
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Anonymous asked: How do I stop being so sensitive? My boyfriend, and all my friends love to joke around in like a mean way, they don't mean it, but sometimes I get sensitive and take things to hurt and they really get to me. All of them have said I need to stop and not be so affected by it. I am NEVER affected by what people who dont know me say about me, I could care less, but people close to me are harder....
